The ‘Beginner’s Guide to BDSM’ is a 45-minute DVD. Mistress Max Absolute leads a couple of novices, Mike and Jane, through the basics and sets them on a path to enjoying their kinky sexuality in a way that’s fun, safe and provides an attractive doorway to the fetish / BDSM world.

Click HERE to buy the DVD

More about Absolute:

Mistress Absolute – the Dominatrix –

Max Absolute – the teacher –

Club Subversion – the Absolute UK fetish event –

Further Reading

There are now hundreds of books on the market and lots of them available to just download on your iPad or Kindle. Have a look in your local kink store for books or check out online retailers like While I would always suggest reading up on your chosen area of kink, my best advice would be to get out there and have a go!

There are lots of local fetish websites and club sites, and many of them come and go. Some are more specialist; but here are a couple of the more established international sites of interest:

There are hundreds of weekly and monthly clubs and events around the globe. I have listed some links to the big annual events that are held worldwide, and have selected ones that are not orientated to any particular gender, sexuality or kink. There are, of course, many great events out there that cater to a more specialised audience for you to discover should you wish to…

European Annual Fetish Events  (France)  (Germany)  (Germany)  (Germany) (Portugal)  (UK) (France) (Sweden)

USA Annual Fetish Events (Washington DC) (Los Angeles) (Maryland) (Florida) (Florida) (Nevada) (Oregon) (New York) (New Jersey)

Canadian Annual Fetish Events (Montréal) (Vancouver)

Australia & New Zealand Annual Fetish Events (Australia)  (New Zealand)

Other Annual Fetish Events  (Dominican Republic)